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I have two questions... My partner denied me for about a week and it ended a few days ago. It was my first time doing any type of denial longer than half a day. The only problem is that it only reason it lasted so long was because she forgot... She recognized that she messed up by forgetting, but I still feel hurt by it... How can I make sure she remembers next time? Also, is it normal to feel abnormally horny for days after denial? It's only ever been a fantasy to me before now... :)
Okay, great question.
While it’s annoying (and come on, a bit amusing) she forgot, part of the reason she did is because you were too passive about your denial (let’s not focus on the other part, the only thing we can easily change is ourselves).
Denial, like any D/s dynamic is a two way thing, and while it’s being led by the person denying you it’s also imperative that you’re responding and showing them that you’re enjoying being denied - and for them to see it change how you behave.
The heart of this is… communication. Nice, clear communication.
Tell them you’re liking it, or not! Tell them how horny it’s got you. Most of all tell them what it makes you want to do to them.
That’s how to avoid it in future. Engage them in your denial and show them the benefits and there’s no way they can forget. (Although they might ignore you on purpose…)
As for you being horny for days afterwards - good. Get used to it. Fantasy is becoming reality, and you’re going to love it. Now go and ask her to deny you again and then show her just how much you appreciate it…and keep on showing it. If you’re lucky she’ll keep you denied even longer this time.
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