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Welcome once again to the TD Academy for Girls distance education program. We’re so pleased you have joined us. This is the second lecture in our introductory course series where today we will be covering the fundamentals of edging, a skill every young woman should learn. If you enrolled late and missed the introduction and first lecture, you can find it here.
The greatest experience of sexual pleasure is not just about the genitals. It is about learning how to play with erotic energy. Edging is one great way to play with erotic energy and experience heightened sexual pleasure.
For those of you who may not be completely familiar with the concept, edging is the act of bringing yourself to the very brink (or edge) of orgasm and then pulling back without climaxing. Once you’ve calmed down just enough to be able to continue without climaxing, you do it all again, often repeatedly. It’s all about coming very close and then pulling back. It’s all about heightened arousal, anticipation, waiting, the promise of more, and building an almost irresistible yearning to orgasm.
Edging is a part of the activity orgasm denial, which has its roots in BDSM power play. But it is not necessary to be a BDSM practitioner to indulge in and enjoy the benefits of edging. Edging is a sex trend on the rise that has been gaining traction in recent times with people of all genders, even among those solidly a part of the vanilla community. While it is impossible to say with certainty where or when the idea of edging originated, the technique has long been a part of the ancient Eastern practice of Tantric sex.
While edging can involve a sexual partner, you can edge yourself during solo play as a means of making masturbation more exciting and pleasurable. Edging during masturbation and delaying climax typically produces stronger and more intense orgasms than might have occurred otherwise.
Even if you have never tried edging but you have had partner sex and your partner came before you had a chance to orgasm, then you may know more about edging than you thought.
Why Would Anyone Want to Edge?
Whether it be with a partner or masturbation, most people approach sex with almost the single-minded goal of achieving orgasm. So, delaying gratification by edging might seem a bit counter-intuitive to you. Why would anyone want to do it? The motivation for wanting to edge is quite multi-faceted.
- Edging has been shown to deepen your internal connection.
- Edging empowers and thrills because it allows you to pass sexual norms that many seem to be stuck on.
- Learning to hold off your orgasm through edging, allows you to gain control over that very strong biological urge, and prolongs a sexual experience.
- Edging helps you focus your attention on the experience rather than simply an end goal, climax.
- Edging often produces better orgasms, often even the earth-shattering variety.
- When you practice edging over an extended period of time; a few days, a week, or longer, and don’t orgasm you experience significantly heightened and near continuous arousal. Your literally extend the Plateau phase of the female sexual response cycle. After an extended period of edging, many of students have reported that they remained almost constantly wet and aroused.
- For our submissive students, regular edging nearly always deepens their submissive mindset.
Learning to Edge
You approach a solo edging session in the very same way you already approach any masturbation session. In other words, you don’t just go straight into trying to edge. You need to warm up first. Look at naughty images, read some erotica, watch some porn, and then start touching yourself just as you usually do when masturbating. Become aroused, make sure you’re wet, then slowly build up the tension and pleasure.
In order to edge effectively, you need to test yourself to learn where your point of no return (PNR) is, the point where orgasm becomes inevitable and you cannot do anything to stop it from occurring.
I cannot simply describe to you how it feels to be on the edge of orgasm, just short of the PNR. Everyone is different. Some take longer than others to come while masturbating. Naturally some take longer to edge. Generally, when you do a series of edges, once you edge the first time the subsequent edges come much easier and faster. The only way to find your own PNR is to spend time with your hand inside your panties practicing, and learning to read how your body is responding to the stimulation.
As you may recall from the first lecture, there are some physiological signs to look for that will help you gauge how close you are getting to orgasm while edging.
- Breathing becomes fast and shallow.
- The body tenses, you feel a compulsion to contract lower body muscles.
- You start to desire and need more stimulation; faster, stronger stimulation.
- You start to tune everything else out and to focus almost exclusively on your genitals.
- You find it increasingly harder to consider stopping the stimulation because your body and your pussy demand attention.
- You feel the beginnings of the urge to cum.
- All of these are signs that you have hit, or at least are very close to the point of no return.
How Often to Edge
As you learned during the first lecture, our primary mission here at TD Academy is to produce young female graduates who are perpetually aroused, always wet, and continuously ready for sex. As a part of achieving that vital goal, we require all our students to masturbate 20 minutes daily and to edge themselves multiple times during those sessions.
Of course, like most institutions for young women, we have our share of over achievers. Many of our resident students enjoy spending much of their free time with their hands in their panties edging away. Of course we encourage that here at TD Academy.
No worries though. As freshmen distance education students you won’t be expected to meet our standards for resident students right away. Our expectation is that you will masturbate until you have edged 3 times, three days per week to start. After that, you will add another day of masturbation and edging each week thereafter until you are on the same 7-day per week, 20 minutes per day schedule as the resident student body. You will start to notice a difference in your control over your orgasm and the heightened sexual feelings that goes along with it quite soon.
First Edging
For those of you who have never tried edging or perhaps haven’t been very successful with it in the past, here are a few pointers that should help you.
Once you are aroused, wet, and ready to masturbate, rub your clit until you start to approach the edge of release. Then stop, because as you recall from earlier, learning exactly where your personal PNR is can be a bit tricky. Move your hand away from your pussy, and take some deep breaths. Once you feel your arousal retreating a bit, start rubbing again.
This time, try to get just a little closer to the edge. Then stop. Continue in this fashion, taking yourself a little closer to the edge each time. When you get to a point where you feel you will come if you continue, you will have found your PNR and edging stopping point. Simply masturbate to that point each time thereafter.
Advanced Techniques
In the next lecture, “Advanced Edging,” you will learn some advanced techniques that will help you become a more competent, confident, and effective edger. Among others, one technique you will learn is how to “ride” an edge. That means reaching the edge and then lingering there from several minutes or even up to several hours without climaxing.
Let’s look at a demonstration.
Meet Jasmine, one of our resident students, and a very accomplished edger. She is one of the over achievers I mentioned earlier. She was more than happy to volunteer to miss field hockey practice this afternoon to get in some extra masturbation time by serving as a training aid for this lecture.
Jasmine has been riding an edge since the beginning of the lecture. Even as aroused as Jasmine obviously is, I assure you that she can stay on that jagged edge without coming until I give her permission to stop masturbating. In no time at all, you too will become as skillful an edger as Jasmine.
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Good girl, Jasmine. As we did last time, we will conclude the lecture with a brief practical exercise. Go ahead and remove your clothing so that you are completely naked and we will get started.
Practical Exercise
Don’t forget the warm up. As tempting as I know it is, instead of going straight for your cunt and trying to start edging, spend a few minutes first caressing and squeezing those lovely breasts.
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Don’t forget the nipples. Flick them with a single finger. Take them between fingers and thumbs and give them some firm squeezing. Tug on them a bit.
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Once your charming nipples are hard and erect, slide your hands down to just below your waist. Caress and massage your enchanting mound for several minutes with your hands and fingers. If you’re a natural girl, go ahead and give your pubic hairs a few playful tugs. Stay well clear of your clitoris for now, just focus on your exquisite mound.
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You should be quite wet now and ready to move those hands a little further down to where you really want them. Run the tips of your middle fingers of your right hand up and down that gorgeous crevice between your outer pussy lips from your vaginal opening up to your clitoris and back again. Drag that divine wetness from between your silky thighs all the way up to your clit, coating everything with your luscious juices.
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When your pussy is thoroughly soaked and lubricated, start rubbing your cunt in large firm ovals. Start at your clit, follow your inner lips all the way down the right side of your pussy to your opening, then back up your inner lips on the left side all the way back to your clit. Rub 20 continuous ovals and then move on to the next step.
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You should be nicely aroused now, so let’s concentrate on your clit.
Using the middle fingers of your right hand (or left if you are left handed), start by rubbing your clit in 20 slow circles with light pressure. After you finish that, continue rubbing those circles, but this time do 20 fast, firm circles. Now just continue alternating 20 slow, soft circles with 20 fast, firm circles and move towards an edge.
Don’t forget to watch for the clues that you approaching your PNR; rapid, shallow breathing, the urge to tense your leg, thigh, and buttock muscles, the growing desire for faster and firmer stimulation.
If you are new to edging, err on the side of caution. I’d rather you stop a little too soon than push too far and end up having an accidental orgasm.
That hot, wet, pussy is feeling quite good now isn’t it? You’re so wet and so horny now. I can imagine you are starting to worry you may not have the willpower to stop because rubbing your aching, throbbing clit feels so amazing right now.
But remember! You don’t have permission to come. At TD Academy, we like to put it this way. Good girls edge, they don’t come, and I know you want to be a good girl.
Now, STOP! Take your hands away. Rest them on the top of your thighs.
Edging isn’t so difficult is it? Isn’t it amazing to feel so hot and bothered, so needy?
Take some deep breaths now and relax, let your arousal subside just a bit.
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Homework Assignment
Everyone should know how to edge now so I have a little homework assignment for you.
Before you get dressed, if you edged for the first time during the practical exercise, or if you have tried edging before but were not successful, your assignment is to masturbate and edge once more.
If however, you have some past experience with edging, your assignment is to masturbate and edge 2 more times before getting dressed.
If you’re an over achiever like Jasmine, then go ahead and push the envelope a little by masturbating until you have edged 3 more times. Don’t forget to take a little break and calm down a bit between edges.
Remember girls, no coming during the homework assignment.. “Good girls edge, they don’t come.” Go ahead and repeat that aloud as a little mantra while you edge.
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Hopefully you enjoyed the practical exercise and will have fun with the homework assignment. We are so pleased you have become a part of the TD Academy for Girls family. We look forward to helping you achieve your highest self during our time together as you work toward graduation. See you next time when we will take a look at advanced edging techniques.
Class dismissed.